don't let Tyler Perry have you staying in these tired relationships. and by tired I mean... you literally been tired of this relationship for years and you've literally not been poured into.
and don't let whatever religious text your mama nem sent you have you thinking that being with an abuser is better than being alone.
and don't allow some "strong woman/man" madness have you feeling like you must continue to be there for everyone --- especially for those repeat callerswho call you only when they want something.
and remember, you deserve joy. you're worthy. and you are not responsible for solving everyones mess.